Thanks for the responses everyone. I'm not going to intentionally hide that we did the civil ceremony. If the word gets out, it'll be out (our immediate family and several friends know anyway). But I… (View Post)
I guess I'm pretty grateful for knowing my family and friends pretty well then. Like I said before, over 70% of the guests are in Hawai'i (which is where we're getting married) and it's during Sunday… (View Post)
Thanks everyone for your responses! I thought it would be fun to have a friend perform the ceremony for us, since we don't need an officiant. As for letting guests know... I think the important thing… (View Post)