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Hmmm tricky. It hadn't occurred to me to haggle and I don't know the etiquette of it. I would guess that perhaps you could say, ' we love the venue and x, y, z. Our budget was $x, we wondered if ther… (View Post)

The vouchers are a bad idea, not least because they sound really complicated! And it means that you have to have the responsibility for policing your wedding, which doesn't sound like much fun either… (View Post)

I'd have a chat with your parents and offer the money back to them. They may gift it to you. In any case you will have done the right thing x (View Post)

The most cringingly awful bit for me is the part where she tells the HILARIOUS tale of going to the toilet in a Mexican restaurant (crazyyyyy!) and then RUNNING (omg like LOL!!!!!!1!!) to the chapel … (View Post)

I just wanted to echo what other PPs have said. This is one example of a time when it is fine to put yourself first and accept the gift your BM has given you, spend some time with her and your other … (View Post)