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Ditto. Why do you have to only have your immediate family at the ceremony? Why couldn't you move the ceremony up to 6pm Friday and have the reception with everyone right after that... or do the cere… (View Post)

Wow, OP, thinking of you. Please let us know how things went. (View Post)

I'm also a dancer, and agree with PPs. It's too much for a wedding reception. I've had friends do "flash mob" first dances, and (IMHO) they took way too long, were a little AW-ish, and were… (View Post)

Another vote for real flowers. You don't need flower arrangements for the ceremony or reception space to decorate, or for centerpieces. We're doing simple centerpieces with lots of tea light candles … (View Post)

OP, I've been there. I'm sorry you're going through this, but I can tell you - it gets better. We mailed postcards to everyone as soon as we knew for sure, with wording similar to what PPs said. My m… (View Post)