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Wonder what anniversary they'll celebrate? But, from the story, I'm guessing Ursula says she deserves multiple anniversaries every year and she expects at least a gift for all of them: dating anniver… (View Post)

Gifts of money (for any occasion) are always accepted. Asking for money is never okay. http://www.emilypost.com/weddings/a-guide-for-guests/845-choosing-gifts (though I don't usually refer to Emily P… (View Post)

OP, I hope you can step back and take a look at the advice you've been given objectively. I know it's probably not what you wanted to hear, but your friends and family are likely to tell you they don… (View Post)

I probably wouldn't send a TY note for a TY gift - but I would bring it up the next time I talked to that person "we used the ___ to make dinner last night, we really love it! Thanks again!"… (View Post)

We thanked our parents in a toast at the reception, and gave them a small gift at the RD (a nice frame that we ordered a pro pic for and gift certificate to a restaurant for dinner). We also hosted a… (View Post)