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1. Heathcliff, Heathcliff no one should terrorize the neighborhood.

   

   Discussion by mrsconn23 · August 2022 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Wedding Woes

   Dear Prudence, I’m a queer person with a tightknit group of friends from college, all of whom are somewhere on the LGBTQ+ spectrum. We are generally very supportive of one another and act like a found-family in many ways. We are also a group that has seen a few people changing their names over the years, when people have…

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   Reply by VarunaTT · August 2022 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Wedding Woes

   Every person's journey is different. I change my hair color every 3 months and no one ever tells me it's annoying. This person is trying on names, who cares. Most of my friends who are trans went through a whole bunch of names...they just didn't announce along the way. This honestly seems just silly.

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   Reply by short+sassy · August 2022 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Wedding Woes

   Pat Benatar has a little known song called "Wuthering Heights". Here's the refrain: Wuthering, Wuthering, Wuthering Heights Heathcliff, it's me, I'm Cathy, I've come home I'm - so cold, let me in your window Heathcliff, it's me, I'm Cathy, I've come home I'm - so cold, let me in your window That first line is sung with a…

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   Reply by mrsconn23 · August 2022 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Wedding Woes

   I couldn't come up with another title and that song popped in my head. Anyway, I think this is a non-issue. Heathcliff has settled on the name, for now. Call him by it. And if he changes it again, so be it. If he asks if it's annoying, be honest and tell him how you feel. 

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   Reply by charlotte989875 · August 2022 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Wedding Woes

   Is Heathcliff making a big deal out of the name changes or are they simply saying “please call me Heathcliff now”? Are you all asking follow up questions or just saying “cool, when’s the next hike”? Because the annoyance could be that you all are making a deal out of it rather than just acknowledging it and moving on.