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1. Re: Last name situation

   

   Reply by firsttimersluck · June 2011 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Military Brides

   I think you should sit down and discuss this with him, first of all. :P BUT, I would say that if he is seriously contemplating changing his last name in the next year, that you should wait and change it with that. If HE doesn't even like his last name SO much that he wants to change it, then why would that upset him? It's…

2. Last name situation

   

   Discussion by Scott510 · June 2011 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Military Brides

   my fiancé has a weird last name situation with his family and so wants to change his last name and I would ultimately become Mrs. Thatlastname. However, changing his name while he is in the military would be more than a littlebit of a pain in the butt and so he's going to wait until he's out, which is roughly a year after…

3. Re: Last name situation

   

   Reply by Scott510 · June 2011 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Military Brides

   I know legally it probably wouldn't be much hassle but having to change his uniforms and since he's always called by his last name, it's just easier for him to wait. And yeah I know my FI and I need to actually talk about this, he just happens to be underway when it occured to me that he expects me to take his last name,…

4. Re: Last name situation

   

   Reply by SamiJoeB · June 2011 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Military Brides

   Step 1:Talk to him. For whatever reason, I've seen alot of guys get really touchy about this. Some guys, like in Stan's case are totally fine with whatever. My H wanted me to take his last name, and since it didn't change my initials, I was fine with it. (My Dad, GPa, GGPa, and myself all have the same initals, so it was…