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1. S/O of S/O of whorey whores.

   

   Discussion by J&K10910 · May 2010 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Snarky Brides

   Could you marry someone with whom you typically don't have very good sex? I have a friend who is engaged and has been with the guy for 6 years, and she's constantly complaining about the sex. I personally feel that if you guys haven't figured it out after 6 freakin' years sleeping together, there's waaaay more wrong than…

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   Reply by luckyme502 · May 2010 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Snarky Brides

   No, the sex has to be good. Now, it doesn't have to be the best sex of my life either, cause it's not. I agree with M&M that sex is indicative of the rest of the relationship. Most amazing sex every guy and mine's relationship was all lust and passion, no love and tenderness. So, I moved on. I also think that sex can be…

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   Reply by [Deleted User] · May 2010 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Snarky Brides

   I honestly don't think I'm very good in that area (way too many hangups from the past), but DH swears it's awesome so I guess he's happy. Sex isn't as important to me as it is to others (maybe because I think I suck at it) but I still could only be with someone I'm comfortable being intimate with. If the sex did blow,…

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   Reply by sparklingdiamond · May 2010 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Snarky Brides

   No, I couldn't live with bad sex for the rest of my life either! And I agree that physical chemistry is very important!

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   Reply by graysquirrel · May 2010 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Snarky Brides

   This seems silly. Go to a sex therapist, read a book, buy a dildo. There is so much more to marriage than you hitting the big o.

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   Reply by goheels05 · May 2010 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Snarky Brides

   I used to be of the mindset that bad sex could be remediated, but these stories scare me. 

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   Reply by LoveOfMikesLife · May 2010 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Snarky Brides

   thank goodness FI and I were drunk our first time.... we never had that akward first time thing! The only thing that I remember is that he did it threw his boxers(he's says he didnt)! We joke about it all the time now

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   Reply by ohwhynot · May 2010 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Snarky Brides

   After 6 years? No. But I will say that it has gotten a gazillion times better with fi and me. After the first few times, I was kinda horrified, to be honest, and felt really sad that it was so (sorry fi - I love you, but really? sad, sad show) disappointing. Luckily I took the bull by the horns, so to speak, and it is…

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   Reply by JennaV26 · May 2010 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Snarky Brides

   One of my sister's BFFs was telling us at my sister's bachelorette party that her fiance was horrible in bed. This same girl also turned her engagement ring around at the bar and flirted with everyone. She got married a few months after my sister and 6 months later she was divorced. I'm not sure if it was the bad sex, her…

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    Reply by mandapanda78 · May 2010 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Snarky Brides

    To me, the health of a couple's sex life is a pretty good indicator of their relationship. And by "health" I just mean- are both partners satisfied. Because what's healthy for some does not at all meet the requirements of others. So yeah, if she's a constant complainer about their sex life after six years, she's ignoring a…