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   Discussion by Future Mrs Butterworth · November 2009 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Wedding Woes

   Also - divorce is considerably more expensive and draining than a wedding. And... you'd be surprised how much your house is part your H's when you get divorced, regardless of the fact that he will have amassed quite a collection of Blu-Ray DVDs instead of helping you with the mortgage.

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   Reply by baconsmom · November 2009 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Wedding Woes

   As always, V, you say it much more elegantly than I could. ;)

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   Reply by angel_lins · November 2009 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Wedding Woes

   I'm going to ditto and quote every single thing that everyone said in your original post and in this one. When you said this: It's always about the same general stuff... him being unattentive or not caring when I'm sad... me snapping on him for doing the same crap over and over (i.e. calling me a wench when he doesn't get…

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   Reply by MinM · November 2009 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Wedding Woes

   Also, work that once it is done, it is done. Not something to be repeated every 3 or 4 weeks. I effing hate re-runs.

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   Reply by VarunaTT · November 2009 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Wedding Woes

   I think the key, BMom, is that it should be enjoyable "work".

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   Reply by baconsmom · November 2009 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Wedding Woes

   If I can add something else, too - I know before I was married, I heard a LOT of "marriage is work" "you need to work hard at it" "don't forget to put in the effort", etc., etc.But I have to say that my husband and I have never found our relationship to be "work". Yes, it takes consideration and thought, but a good…