I feel ya: between us, my fiance and I have four nieces (7, 5, 2, 1) and four nephews (5, 2, 1, 1). We both come from very close families, so we've asked all the girls to be flower girls and all the boys to be ring bearers. Yes, we might be slightly crazy. But we're also realistic- if anyone's pitching a fit, we aren't…