Just Engaged and Proposals
I'm absolutely heartbroken. I was supposed to get married in less than 6 months and now I learn that my fiancé and I can no longer be together. My fiancé has been out if town for a couple days now as his great aunt passed away. After the wake, my fiancé calls me to inform me that his uncle whom I've never met before, randomly brings me up in conversation and starts saying a bunch of racist things about me. He's Italian, and I'm biracial. My fiancé was shocked and got in an argument with him. Then the next day at the burial, several family members who I never met surrounded him and start bad talking me again. My fiancé refused to tell what exactly as he said he could never repeat it all to me as it was just too horrible. I find out that one of the people that didn't want us together is his father. I've been with my fiancé for almost two years and his father acted like he really liked me all this time. My fiancé said he was in disbelief as well. He spoke to his mother about and his mother said she was always fine with us being together but his father was never happy about it. When I thought it was his uncle and other people I never met before bad talking me, I was still hopeful that they wouldn't interfere with us getting married and lasting as he hardly ever sees them and we live in VA while they are all in NY. Now that I've learned that my fiancés father also has an issue with me, I really don't know how this could ever work out. My fiancé apologized many times and says he doesn't know what to do but does not want me to have to deal with such hatred for the rest of my life and I deserve better. I'm completely lost. I can't imagine my life without him. I bought my dress and everything. I've been counting down the days til the wedding. Now it looks like I have to walk away and try to move on. I've never felt so much hurt in my life. I can't believe how cruel and ignorant people can be in this day in age.
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