Hello Ladies!
So far everything has been going great, except I stress about one problem guest and need your opinions. I really dislike my fiance's brother's girlfriend. Even before I was dating my fiance, we hated each other. There have been numerous family incidents and drama, and yet she is still openly accepted by my future MIL. My problem is, we want the brother in the wedding, but I don't want her there. What should I do ?
Thank you in advance
Re: Problem Guests
You invite her because she's your fiance's brother's SO and it's rude to invite only half of a couple.
Yes, she needs to be invited. Yes, you're likely to be so busy and bum rushed from one place/guest to another, you aren't going to have too much time to interact other than pleasantries.
If she's that disruptive (like violent, belligerent drunk, bringing in illegal activity, etc) to where she's going to be bad for all your guests, you can give the heads up to your coordinator or some not so deeply vested third party to keep an eye on her behavior and intervene if needed.
The incidents are pretty brutal, but everybody seems to be able to look past them because they dont want my future brother in law to cut them out.
I guess I just have to be as forgiving
My sister's fiance is a (former?) ecstasy dealer who has a felony drug charge on his record.
He doesn't believe in psychiatry, so he made my sister stop taking her meds for bipolar disorder.
He doesn't have a job and made my sister sell her car to make rent one month, so now she's dependent on him for transportation.
He has a kid that is like eleven (my sister is 24), and on the weekends that he has custody, he has my sister entertain the kid instead of taking care of her himself.
When my husband's cancer survivor grandma was still alive but very ill, he openly mocked us for going to Shoney's for Thanksgiving dinner because she was so sick that she didn't have the energy to host dinner.
A few times, they went to our house and 'borrowed' BluRays, only to never return them again and claim that they never had them in their possession.
Et cetera, et cetera. So I'm interested to see what's so 'brutal' that you feel like she can be cut from a guest list.
I love your signature pic, btw.
"Love is the one thing we're capable of perceiving that transcends time and space."
But if the person is just a bitch...suck it up.