Hi guys, so a little bit of background first... I had my girls take time to pick out a dress and vote on it. When they went to get to get their measurements done they notified me that that dress company is now going out of business and the girls have two weeks to get their measurement's and downpayments in and that was absolute last day. No biggie, I could I always help with the cost if need be. Well I had one BM that needed an extra push. She made me aware the last week of dress ordering that she had gotten pregnant. Alright no biggie once again, just let the bridal salon know I am sure they have dealt with this before. Im pretty chill.
Here's where it gets messy... she started asking if I was free and was trying to schedule stuff a month prior to my wedding date... I was like well I should be, thinking she wanted to just come visit. No, she wanted to plan my bridal shower and bachelorette party during the same exact weekend and they are already scheduled. I figured she was just being naive. Then the next week she ask about another weekend in the same month and I was like what it is up? Turns out that she was trying to plan her shotgun wedding the same weekend as my bridal shower and wedding shower. I put 2 and 2 together that she was trying to control my dates for her own benefit. So now she has her wedding, with the same friends invited, schedule 2 weeks prior to mine. I will have been planning/saving for this wedding for 13 months by the time I get married. And now she is going to going to do this. She recently texted me while in a meeting and I didn't get a chance to respond. And when I am not at work I have been moving into my new house. Plus I was away on a business trip last week. She just sent a message asking if I even care about her pregnancy or wedding... bottom line I am very supportive of her but think the timing of wedding is extremely inconsiderate and a bad friend move.
What should I do?
TL;DR - BM got knocked up and planning her shotgun wedding 2 weeks earlier than mine. I will have had been planning mine for 13 months and same friends are invited. I have been busy with buying a house/work/wedding. Now she thinks I don't care about her pregnancy or wedding. Pregnancy I am supportive of and wedding timing is extremely inconsiderate.
What should I do?
Thanks!