I read on another forum about a bride who invited kids to her wedding. She included an insert stating that kids under 10 will get a child's meal of chicken nuggets and fries. Her response card included a meal selection and the couple put down steak for the entire family, including their two kids (ages 3 and 5). Anyway, most of the responses are saying that it's probably an oversight and the couple didn't see that a child's meal was available and that the bride should call the couple and explain that kids get the child's meal. Some are saying she shouldn't even bother calling and just switch it to child's meal for both kids. Yet others are saying that maybe the parents have a genuine reason for not wanting their kids to have a chicken nugget dinner and that the bride and groom should clarify if there was an oversight, but short of that, they should feed the children steak if that's what their parents ordered.
Keep in mind the difference in price is substantial. The steak dinner is nearly $100 per person.
So, I bow to the authority on etiquette. What would you do?