I know you ladies will understand, so I am going to vent to you all. I have it easier than some here, because my FI is active duty AF and in career that protects from ever having to deploy non-voluntarily. We live together and do not have to worry too much about deployment, or orders to a new duty station. But he works graveyards...and the shop he's in doesn't rotate that shift, he's been working it for 12 mos now, b/c he's single w/ no kids. I work 9-5 he works 1pm until whenever...normally 1-2 am. If we are lucky we get to see each other for dinner, but that's normally only a day or two a week. We do get weekends off together, but they are spent doing all of the stuff around the house and for the wedding that we can't do independently.I am so tired of coming home to an empty house that is supposed to be home for two. I come home, make dinner, hope he gets to come home to eat, then clean up, do wedding stuff or housework, and go to bed alone. He gives me a kiss when he comes to bed, and I give him one when I get up 4 hours later. *sigh* I was totally okay for the first 6 months, but damn its getting old. I understand wanting to give the guys w/ wives and esp w/ kids a break and let them work days, but it'd be awesome if even once in 3-6 mos they could swap so I and the other spouses (FI the only unmarried guy in his shift) could see our loved ones a bit.Anyway, thanks for listening.
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