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Why are there so many bridezillas?

Shlby81Shlby81
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Not all but some girls are mean. Very judgmental and not likening anyone else's options that are not you own. I've had several girls jump down my tho at bc they don't like my options or don't agree with me. I thought this was a public blog where we would try and help each other and not be so nasty. Just bc you don't like something doesn't give you the rite to be rude or taky. Not everyone is mean just some. So to the rude girls stop being bridezillas. To the nice ones Thankyou.
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    MyNameIsNotMyNameIsNot member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_why-are-there-so-many-bridezillas?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:4af7ea3a-95c6-4b4f-a72a-56d1c377c7d0Post:8cc6b9e5-b51b-4291-86c2-f170155d944d">Why are there so many bridezillas?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Not all but some girls are mean. Very judgmental and not likening anyone else's options that are not you own. I've had several girls jump down my tho at bc they don't like my options or don't agree with me. I thought this was a public blog where we would try and help each other and not be so nasty. Just bc you don't like something doesn't give you the rite to be rude or taky. Not everyone is mean just some. So to the rude girls stop being bridezillas. To the nice ones Thankyou.
    Posted by Shlby81[/QUOTE]

    <div>You should probably google the term bridezilla.  Someone that tells you that your idea is not a good one is not a bridezilla.  A bridezilla is a person who makes her wedding the center of her universe and uses it as an excuse to treat her friends and family badly.  </div><div>
    </div><div>Without having read your prior post, your inclination to launch a vague name calling attack rather than to take up your issue with the individuals that you have issue with sheds a little light.  This sort of immature post has no place in a board for adults.  </div>
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    vsgalvsgal member
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    What have you been posting? 
    Without knowing what opinions you are giving, I can't tell you why people are addressing you in the manner they are.  I can tell you that we are very honest here.  We do not validate bad ideas that are rude to your family, friends, and guests. If you are suggesting things like asking people for money, forcing BM's to have specific hair, enforcing a guest dress code, have a potluck reception or anything else of the like, we will not get behind those ideas.  You just joined today.  My suggestion is to lurk on boards before you start doling out wedding advice.  You will start to see how the boards operate and what behavior is acceptable when planning a wedding.
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    bridalmarchbridalmarch member
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    I think if you still have almost two years until your wedding and you're this upset on your first day, maybe this isn't the place for you. 
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    Shlby81Shlby81
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_why-are-there-so-many-bridezillas?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:4af7ea3a-95c6-4b4f-a72a-56d1c377c7d0Post:5a223339-b2c0-4315-9512-e913535603bd">Re: Why are there so many bridezillas?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I think if you still have almost two years until your wedding and you're this upset on your first day, maybe this isn't the place for you. 
    Posted by bridalmarch[/QUOTE]



    I thought this was a pubic blog?
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    ootmother2ootmother2 member
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    well, it's difficult to explain but I'll try

    When you get engaged, you get a diamond ring.  Diamonds can reflect certain rays from the sun that causes bridezillaness.

    Sorry I don't have all the scientific data.

    hth
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    Well, there's this, but I don't see who was mean to you?
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    allychaseallychase member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_why-are-there-so-many-bridezillas?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:4af7ea3a-95c6-4b4f-a72a-56d1c377c7d0Post:0d91eae6-5c28-4b29-b5a6-aa713155b7a2">Re: Why are there so many bridezillas?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Why are there so many bridezillas? : I thought this was a pubic blog?
    Posted by Shlby81[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Pubic blog? Damn you should probably buy me dinner first....

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    What do you want them to "liken" things to?
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    J&K10910J&K10910 member
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    Forum.  The word you're looking for is "forum."

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_why-are-there-so-many-bridezillas?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:4af7ea3a-95c6-4b4f-a72a-56d1c377c7d0Post:0d91eae6-5c28-4b29-b5a6-aa713155b7a2">Re: Why are there so many bridezillas?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Why are there so many bridezillas? : I thought this was a pubic blog?
    Posted by Shlby81[/QUOTE]

    <div>Well it's a public message board.  </div><div>
    </div><div>And because it's public you will find people who will give true honest answers and not validate bad ideas that effect the comfort of your guests.  </div>






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    samantha24psamantha24p
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    You are drama. No one has been mean to you.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_why-are-there-so-many-bridezillas?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:4af7ea3a-95c6-4b4f-a72a-56d1c377c7d0Post:0d91eae6-5c28-4b29-b5a6-aa713155b7a2">Re: Why are there so many bridezillas?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Why are there so many bridezillas? : I thought this was a pubic blog?
    Posted by Shlby81[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>Well, it's a public message board, but sure. The point is, the beauty of being public is that people get to give opinions on any old thing they click. Their opinion might be different than yours. </div><div>
    </div><div>Out of curiosity, how old are you? </div>
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    Shlby81Shlby81
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    [QUOTE]<a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_just-engaged-proposals_newly-engaged-47">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_just-engaged-proposals_newly-engaged-47</a> Well, there's this, but I don't see who was mean to you?
    Posted by allychase[/QUOTE]



    I can't believe you would pull up my forum! Thats meen.
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    Shlby81Shlby81
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Why are there so many bridezillas? : Well it's a public message board.   And because it's public you will find people who will give true honest answers and not validate bad ideas that effect the comfort of your guests.  
    Posted by lyndausvi[/QUOTE]



    I get this but they don t have to be so mean.
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    Shlby81Shlby81
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    [QUOTE]You are drama. No one has been mean to you.
    Posted by samantha24p[/QUOTE]



    You are the takyest meanest one. Leave me alone.
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    bridalmarchbridalmarch member
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    Never mind. Am I too new to call shenanigans? 
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    bridalmarchbridalmarch member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Why are there so many bridezillas? : I can't believe you would pull up my forum! Thats meen.
    Posted by Shlby81[/QUOTE]

    <div>Now post is the word you're looking for. </div><div>
    </div><div>I knew my English degree would come in handy. </div>
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    Shlby81Shlby81
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re:Why are there so many bridezillas?:

    Well, there's your problem. It's not a blog at all, it's a message board. And message boards are specifically designed for getting feedback from others. That means when someone posts, they will get responses, honest responses from perfect strangers.

    If you're looking to blog about your wedding, I'd recommend a site like wordpress.com.
    Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]



    I want to make friends and get advise and everyone get along but I keep getting picked on. So I'm not good at grimmer and spelling but come one why?
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    Shlby81Shlby81
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_why-are-there-so-many-bridezillas?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:4af7ea3a-95c6-4b4f-a72a-56d1c377c7d0Post:bcd660ba-017f-4170-9711-12f7c8b31dbb">Re: Why are there so many bridezillas?</a>:
    [QUOTE]What do you want them to "liken" things to?
    Posted by afeliz79[/QUOTE]



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    Shlby81Shlby81
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    [QUOTE]well, it's difficult to explain but I'll try When you get engaged, you get a diamond ring.  Diamonds can reflect certain rays from the sun that causes bridezillaness. Sorry I don't have all the scientific data. hth
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    You were picking on me with Samantha earlier. Leave me alone
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Why are there so many bridezillas? : I can't believe you would pull up my forum! Thats meen.
    Posted by Shlby81[/QUOTE]

    <div>YOUR forum??? I thought you said this was pubic!</div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re:Why are there so many bridezillas? : I want to make friends and get advise and everyone get along but I keep getting picked on. So I'm not good at grimmer and spelling but come one why?
    Posted by Shlby81[/QUOTE]

    <div>Trying too hard, party of you.  </div>
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    bridalmarchbridalmarch member
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    If you need advice, I'd advise that you get a dictionary. 


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    J&K10910J&K10910 member
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    Not even crappy trolls can breathe life into this place.  I'd give you an A for effort, except, well, there was no effort. 

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    samantha24psamantha24p
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    You are the takyest meanest one. Leave me alone.
    Posted by Shlby81[/QUOTE]



    WTF. Is this a joke?
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    Shlby81Shlby81
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    You are bully's. Maybe ima little emotional but this is my friggn day and I'm bein mocked. My hormones r out of control but that doesn't meen you all have to pick on me.
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    J&K10910J&K10910 member
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    It's your day?

    And...I'm not even going to touch the hormones thing with a 10 foot pole.

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    bridalmarchbridalmarch member
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    There are 644 days until your wedding. Which one of those are you claiming as yours? It can't be July 4th, because America laid claim to that awhile ago. 
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    RamonaFlowersRamonaFlowers member
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    Um ... I was here. OP, you suck.

    That's all I got, guys. Sorry, I just can't get it up for a "why are y'all such beyotchs?!?!?!?! GET OFF MY WALL!!!!" post tonight.

    *I felt sorry for my husband before I met him. Take a number.*
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    Shlby81Shlby81
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_why-are-there-so-many-bridezillas?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:4af7ea3a-95c6-4b4f-a72a-56d1c377c7d0Post:9353615a-214f-454a-89de-e0930ad5399e">Re: Why are there so many bridezillas?</a>:
    [QUOTE]There are 644 days until your wedding. Which one of those are you claiming as yours? It can't be July 4th, because America laid claim to that awhile ago. 
    Posted by bridalmarch[/QUOTE]



    How do u no when I'm getting married?
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