I am having an interfaith ceremony at a church, officiated by a deacon and a rabbi. The original plan was that there would be two old testament readings and then both officiants would say a few words before the marriage vows, followed by a candle lighting ceremony and closing words. Last night when we met with the deacon, it somehow snowballed into the following:
processional
opening prayer
reading 1
responsorial psalm
reading 2
responsorial psalm
reading 3
responsorial psalm
gospel reading
homily
vows/rings
candle lighting ceremony
closing prayers from deacon and rabbi
I'm very overwhelmed at how much it became a religious ceremony- which is expected to some extent given that it's in a church- but would sitll like it to be mostly interfaith and about our LOVE rather than a lot of god.
Basically my long story short is... do I have to have psalms? Can We just go from one reading to the next?