Who is having "padrinos" and how did you ask?
I really do not want to ask, I do not want to ASK PPL TO PAY FOR MY WEDDING. But my family (most of my relatives) keep telling me to show them a "list" of stuff for my wedding so they can pay for it or buy it for us.
I've made it clear that WE are paying for everything ourselves, and IF THEY REALLY WANT to help, they can offer or give what they want.
what else to say? do?thoughts?