I know you ladies will have a great answer for me!
At my shower, an important colleague of my FI gave me her wedding shoes. We had no prior conversations about wedding shoes and I actually already purchased shoes so I'm not sure why. She said she thinks everyone should have at least 2 pairs of shoes for their wedding in case they get uncomfortable. I opened these shoes and there's no way I would take off my wedding shoes and put these on. I don't think they'd be more comfortable and I just like the ones I have a lot better. Also, she already wore them and since they are white they have some stains. They are Dyeables in white.
Should I find some period of time at the wedding to wear them? Should I give them back to her? I'm at a loss.