Hey ladies!
This topic has come up from time to time with me and my FI. I am not sure whether or not to go on birth control when we get married. Half of me thinks that I shouldn't because it is showing that I am trying to take control of the situation when I should just trust that God will bring us a child in His perfect timing. However, the other part of me really doesn't want to have a baby right away (we want to enjoy being married for a few years first) and thinks it is more responsible to go on birth control since we know we aren't ready. What do you girls think? What are you all planning on doing?