FI's family has lost their minds. His BM has been acting a fool and FI';s family went behind his back and would pick up his son and not tell him. he asked them to not pick him up and deal with BM directly, that she needs to learn that HE is his parent and she has to deal with him. lng story short, FI had to call the police on BM xmas eve because he hadnt talked to his son in weeks and they did a wellness check. we FINALLY got his son today after THREE MONTHS!!! just to find out that FI's parents and brothers picked up the boy on xmas eve and spent xmas with him, and have probably been picking him up behind FI's back this whole time...and didnt even call FI. RAGGEDY aint even the word. oh, did i mentionm step sons birthday is on xmas?? yeah...didnt even get to see his baby on his bday. they have told my step son that his dad doesnt love him anymore, he is going to make a new family and doesnt want to be his dad anymore and that they are really his parents. They tell him to be bad at his mommas house so she wont want him anymore and he can live with them. so clearly, they are F-ING NUTS and can stay the hell away from me before i clock alllllll the way out on them. They make him sound like some deadbeat dad who doesnt want nothing to do with his son, which isnt the case at all. BM is a dumba$s and so is his family, and they both feed off each other's drama loving selves.
do u know my FMIL told me as i was standing there in my wedding dress that she wasnt coming to my wedding? all cuz she was mad at FI. silly...i know.
Anyway, needless to say, they aint coming to the wedding. like not even invited. they have crossed a line there is no coming back from. So FI has lost his best man, and a groomsman and we have lost his parents as guests. Ive also cut some people off the guestlist just for getting on my nerves. We only invited 71 people, but we know most of them wont show. now im worried that we are gunna mess around and have like 4 people there! all this hard work for what?!