So the problem is simple. My future hubby's family has not bothered to meet me yet, except for his mom and dad. We have been together for almost three years and we announced we were getting married a year ago. The only family that is coming for the groom are his parents and I have a bunch of mine attending. He's such a sweet man and my family loves him and is so happy for the both of us..yet, his family has not congratulated us, bothered to contact us or even wish us the best, they have ignored our RSVP date, and have even gone as far to be rude to me. I just don’t know what to do since I can tell he is upset but isn’t willing to outwardly admit it …I can’t make them come to the wedding if they do not want to, but is it too much to expect at least a card or a call to congratulate him/us? I dont even expect a gift or money but just a "we wish you the best"..
PS: ….His parents have refused to help pay for the wedding at all, me and my hubby are paying for most of it and my parents have volunteered to go into debt to help us pay for the rest…so even though his parents are coming they have not supported him very much either.