So FI and I have asked his 4 neices to be in our wedding as jr. bridesmaids. (He promised them years ago when they were very young- and so he's keeping his promise) I do want them to feel included by wearing matching dresses, getting their hair done, etc. However, we are not sure if they should stand up at the front during the ceremony. It would just feel like a lot of people. We are also having my 13 year old cousin escort my mom to her seat and then just have him sit with his parents. Would it be rude to have them NOT stand up front with the rest of the wedding party?