I am still too worried about what other people think about my 2nd marriage coming up soon. I felt horrible for my FI when his mom said she wouldn't come, and "it's not like I haven't seen you get married before" (it's his 2nd marriage too). And then most recently, one of the r.s.v.p.'s that I received in the mail from one of my family friends, who has known me since I was a little kid, decides in his decline letter to also point out "To be honest, I was saddened when you and your ex seperated). Really?? Was it really necessary to put that little statement in a r.s.v.p. letter??? *sigh* I love my FI dearly and am more proud than ever to have him by my side and look forward to the day I can call him my husband. But these little things really hurt and make me feel, and probably him, about as unsupported as a couple can get. Heck, I think even my BF of many years is only going because she doesn't want to lose an already strainged friendship. I appreciate her coming, but I know she doesn't approve, having never met my FI.
I am doing my best to hold my head high, and I won't say anything to my FI about the r.s.v.p. that I received. I just wanted to get it off my chest