Hello!
I follow along on these boards a lot, and really could use some help...I am in search of some suggestions from fellow knotties... My FI and I have been planning a wedding for 9.18.2010 for almost a year. We have put deposits on everything including the venue--but have hit a point where we are really not sure a big wedding is for us. We are having a lot of stress from both sides about what they are expecting, and its starting to feel like it is not about us anymore...We are seriously considering eloping- but the main thing holding us back is we had already sent out Save the Dates in Feb. We will be able to get back MOST of our money minus deposit on the dress and $500 admin fee at the venue. Can anyone offer any suggestions or advice? Would it be completely rude to send out a change of plans card to everyone that we had sent the save the dates to? Right now the idea we have is to surprise our immediate families with a very very small ceremony then dinner, and have our honeymoon as planned. Any advice you can offer would really help us
thanks ladies!