-Are you doing it? Why/why not?-If so, when are you doing it?I am torn--I am really not in love with the idea and the whole thing, but the friends I've asked seem to want me to. I am the first of my primary group of friends and the first of my many cousins to get married (I'm 28). I kind of think they're annoying and slow down the party--but I don't know. I also feel like it would be sort of fun.Yeah, I'm all over the place, ha.