FI is Romanian Orthodox and I was raised Presbyterian, but we are not active in either church now. We are having an outdoor wedding, probably with a non-denominational minister. However, there are certain Orthodox traditions that I think are beautiful and I would like to include them (crowning ceremony and binding of the hands during the ceremony) Since the officiant won't be an Orthodox priest, i doubt he will do all the chants, but I am wondering if y'all think its tacky to pick the certain traditions we want if we don't completely do it the way they do it in church (chanting, etc). FI loves these traditions and wants to do them as well. Opinions?