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    FutureMrsTRFutureMrsTR
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    Damnit!  I miss the good threads while I'm at lunch!

    I judge the mother of the kid that got slapped.  If you could see the woman slap your child, you could see your child digging in her garden.

    I would judge SophistryLiz, but I'm starting to think maybe she's an AE?  Why would anyone be such a twit to still hang aroun here?  And is she deleting posts?  Because I'm seeing quotes from her that I didn't see her post.
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    Oh man Daff. Ha.
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    [QUOTE]I didn't GBCK... and I feel I owe everyone an explanation about the shitty thing I said yesterday. It really had little to do with Kelly Clarkson. One of my friends told me she was finally diagnosed with type 2 diabetes yesterday. She's 25 and was warned by her doctor a year ago that she was pre-diabetic and she needed major lifestyle adjustment and weight loss, which she never even attempted, and said she still won't despite the diagnosis, "because there's medicine for it."<strong> It made me really sad and angry that she cares so little about her health</strong>, but I felt guilty for being angry at her, and came across a pic of Clarkson in an article about how she joined the Lillith Fair and projected my anger onto her because of her weight gain. My thought process was along the lines of "omg she's gonna end up like my friend wtf is she thinking." The statement certainly doesn't represent how I feel about overweightness and if anyone paid attention to my other posts, would know that it was WAY out of character for me. I was angry and reacted emotionally rather than logically. Anyway, I re-read it today after I had a chance to digest the situation with my friend and realized how horrible it sounded, so I'm sorry. If you can accept this, great, but I understand anyone who doesn't.
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    I judge people who become so emotionally invested in the life of a celebrity, who has no real affect on their life, that they actually get "really angry or sad" over a life decision that they made.
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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    beatlesgirl25beatlesgirl25
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : Alright, I understand the whole "fat" thing.  Whatever.  That was dumb.  I'm sorry for anyone I offended, but I don't think you need to take it to the stalker level.
    Posted by sophistryliz[/QUOTE]

    Who's stalking you?



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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : Alright, I understand the whole "fat" thing.  Whatever.  That was dumb.  I'm sorry for anyone I offended, but I don't think you need to take it to the stalker level.
    Posted by sophistryliz[/QUOTE]

    That's right. I'm stalking you. You said you're moving to Denver next month in this very thread. That took about as much effort to stalk you as when you had your fucking first and last names as your bio link.

    You're the damn Energizer Bunny of dumbasses. You just keep going and going and going...
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : Alright, I understand the whole "fat" thing.  Whatever.  That was dumb.  I'm sorry for anyone I offended, but I don't think you need to take it to the stalker level.
    Posted by sophistryliz[/QUOTE]
    How is she stalking? You told Kiki that you're moving to Denver next month...and your avatar has where you are right now. Idiot.
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    pinkpinotpinkpinot member
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    I"m actually stalking her now since she mentioned it.  She isn't a troll and a google search pulls up lots of info. 

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    MissLeahMMissLeahM member
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    I pity the fool.

    nft

    edit: I should probably refresh the page more.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : Alright, I understand the whole "fat" thing.  Whatever.  That was dumb.  I'm sorry for anyone I offended, but I don't think you need to take it to the stalker level.
    Posted by sophistryliz[/QUOTE]

    Stalker - <strong>2. </strong> To follow or observe (a person) persistently, especially out of obsession or derangement.

    I'm sorry, but we're actually wanted here - you are not - so who is the stalker? 
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    tidetraveltidetravel member
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    Betrothed - I think she was talking about her friend there.

    Cac - I remember thinking yesterday that it did seem out of character for you.  I hope that things are better in your world today.
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    cac847cac847
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : I judge people who become so emotionally invested in the life of a celebrity, who has no real affect on their life, that they actually get "really angry or sad" over a life decision that they made.
    Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]

    I was talking about my friend.
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    shellydiane820shellydiane820 member
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    ...I still judge cac.

    I hate it when people use excuses like that for bad behavior.
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    KentuckyKateKentuckyKate member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-11?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d8445e2b-8184-404b-b5a6-d2ea76bd9f4aPost:7961dc59-48ae-4c3b-b729-8896178749f7">Re: I judge</a>:
    [QUOTE] I judge the mother of the kid that got slapped.  If you could see the woman slap your child, you could see your child digging in her garden.
    Posted by FutureMrsTR[/QUOTE]

    Good point.  Me too.

    Disclaimer: The child still didn't deserve to be hit, but if his/her mother saw what her child was doing and ignored it, then she is a shitty parent and a shitty neighbor.
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    Sophs is actually that self centered that she believes people to be stalking her??
    Good lord, Soph - be gone before some one drops a house on you too!
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    woot! enjoy!!!

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    beatlesgirl25beatlesgirl25
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    [QUOTE]I pity the fool. nft edit: I should probably refresh the page more.
    Posted by MissLeahM[/QUOTE]

    It's okay. The point is, even Mr. T knows how to spell "pity."



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    [QUOTE]...I still judge cac. I hate it when people use excuses like that for bad behavior.
    Posted by shellydiane820[/QUOTE]


    Yup.
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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    [QUOTE]Changing course here... I also judge my local DB for being all-around sucktastic and incompetent.
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    Me too!  It's gross.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : I think she was talking about her friend who was diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes, not Kelly Clarkson.
    Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]

    I read it this way too, but I still think it's weird to be "projecting your anger" onto a celebrity. Plus, what's her FI's excuse for making fun of fat asses then?



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    Now I judge TK, every time I try to read the last page, I get an error message!
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : I read it this way too, but I still think it's weird to be "projecting your anger" onto a celebrity. Plus, what's her FI's excuse for making fun of fat asses then?
    Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

    Someone I don't know is a much easier target for anger than a friend. FI is pretty critical about weight issues... not necessarily because people are overweight, but because a lot don't do anything about it. Not one of his best qualities but not a reason to not marry him either.
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    I want to know what sophistryliz did the other day that made people so mad. I've thought she sucked for weeks and I'm happy that other people are noticing. 
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    In Response to Re: I judge:
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    In Response to Re: I judge : So, only certain misspellings disturb you, but basic grammar rules such as subject-verb agreement don't faze you?
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    Awesome! :)
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    Psst, Alexia, that is the proper word to use here, not phase.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : Someone I don't know is a much easier target for anger than a friend. FI is pretty critical about weight issues... not necessarily because people are overweight, but because a lot don't do anything about it. Not one of his best qualities but not a reason to not marry him either.
    Posted by cac847[/QUOTE]

    Well, not unless/until you gain weight, anyway. Then what? He has no right to be critical of anyone's weight but his own. He needs to STFU and you need to tell him to and then stop defending him.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : OMG, for a second and half I thought you were talking about me! I scan people's names so I didn't notice sophistry had liz at the end of hers. I was like, "I know I jump in randomly here and there, but, why?"
    Posted by lizstill13[/QUOTE]

    Nononono! I'm glad you realized it was another girl!
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    [QUOTE]I want to know what sophistryliz did the other day that made people so mad. I've thought she sucked for weeks and I'm happy that other people are noticing. 
    Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

    I dont remember how it started, but when she started getting flamed she said something like, "Are you guys bitches because you're all fat?" 

    Didn't go over well.
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    [QUOTE]I want to know what sophistryliz did the other day that made people so mad. I've thought she sucked for weeks and I'm happy that other people are noticing. 
    Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

    She called us fat bitches, but I said weeks ago she needed to shoo away and stop bothering us. I swear, she truly is that stupid kid on the bus who keeps shitting her pants and smiling about it, while everyone else tries to get her to stop shitting her pants. She just smiles while we all hang our heads out the window and gag.
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    [QUOTE]I want to know what sophistryliz did the other day that made people so mad. I've thought she sucked for weeks and I'm happy that other people are noticing. 
    Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

    Well, she said we were all fat bitches for starters, and that we can't think for ourselves. She would know, as a philosophy major she thinks on behalf of the <em>whole world.</em>



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    salt78salt78 member
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    Haha that reminds me of that quote from Mean Girls...

    "I don't hate you because you're fat. You're fat because I hate you."
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    Sophi made the claim that some forms of birth control prevent STDs. 

    And the flaming began

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