This practice fascinates me. I had never seen it happen until my cousin passed away in Alabama. We flew down to attend and there were a few things that stuck out to me.
First- we were grossly over dressed. I wore a black dress and heels. The main attire was jeans, t-shirts, and baseball hats.
Second- There was country music being played at the church (Baptist) while people arrived.
Third- there was a LOT of pictures being taken of the casket etc.
This is something that is not practiced where I am from, and I was really off put by it. Im not sure why. Probably because I have never seen it before. And probably because I think of death as something private, not to be documented in photos.
Is this done where you are from?
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