I am getting married in October and I have four bridesmaids. We are having a very small wedding (we are paying for it ourselves). I wanted to ask 3 other girls to abe honorary bridesmaids. I will not make them do any "work" of any kind at the wedding, just come and they will be recognized on the program, get a corsage and get special seats, and wear the same colors as the wedding party if they would like. I am trying to think of an appropriate way to ask them. Any ideas?