So my plan is for a small, intimate ceremony with our closest family and friends. Invitations are sent and the ball is rolling. However, my FI has had multiple people tell him they would like an invitation. My plan is to have a post wedding party at our home two weeks after the actual date, where everyone will be invited. How should I approach this without being rude, I feel as if people are trying to invite themselves to my wedding, a wedding that is on a tight budget. The wedding is in August, should I go ahead and create invites for the post wedding party so people are aware that they will have the opportunity to celebrate with us even though it is not at the actual wedding? I am just trying to find a way to reduce hurt feelings and not come off as rude.