One of my bridesmaids is backing out of my wedding because her sister decided to get married on the same day as me. I have another girl I want to ask, but I don't know how to ask her without making it seem like she is only going in because the one backed out. I really want her in the wedding, but couldn't ask her before because we would of had uneven numbers. She knows who was originally in the wedding party. How do I ask her to be a bridesmaid without it making it seem like she is only a back up because one person left. She will notice the one bridesmaid is no longer there. HELP PLEASE!!!!!