After lurking, I have seen that this board does not condone pre-planning, and I wholeheartedly agree... Until I saw an adorable news segment in which a man with pancreatic cancer was given only three months to live. He was terribly upset at the fact that he would not be able to be present for his children's future milestones, and wanted to do something that would allow his children to have him present during those events. He and his daughter (who is an adult, and is not engaged, nor does she have a boyfriend), decided to video record a father daughter dance for her wedding. I found this extremely touching, and I didn't think it fell under pre-planning (ie booking venues, etc.), but I wanted to see if this falls under the category of pre-planning, and if so, should it should be considered an exception?Thoughts?