I know it's going out of style but my groom and I would really like to do the bouquet and garter toss. However, most of our guests will be married or in a relationship, so it seems silly to invite all the single people to the toss when there will only be a handful and most people don't like being singled out anyway.
I've always envisioned the bouquet and garter toss as good luck charms in the way of love, not as an indication of who will get married next, so I was considering inviting ALL women onto the floor who would like to participate. Not sure what to do about the garter toss, I guess invite all the guys too.
I was wondering if anyone had any ideas. We'd really like to do the tosses, we just don't want to alienate the single people. I've been looking online for ideas, but most have to do with replacing the tosses and not reworking them, which is what I'd like to do.