My FI and I caught the bouquet and garter at a wedding and it's a tradition we want to do, however, while him and I are both okay getting in front of a crowd and called out for being single, we don't think many people enjoy this. In order to avoid embarrassing my friends like that, I came up with this idea:
All ladies (single or married) are welcome to participate in the boquet toss and all of the guys (single or taken) in the garter toss. Instead of that awkward "the number of inches above the knee is the number of years the coupled will have great sex" thing, they win a prize. Maybe a bottle of our favorite wine for each of them? (Prize suggestions welcome!)
Does this sound like a good plan? Do you have any other suggestions on what we could do?