I may have made a mistake. My MOH bought shoes for my wedding. Every wedding I've heard of or been in, the bride selected the shoes and dresses the bridal party wears. I wondered what I should do in this situation so I posted a discussion on here and apparently it is not custom for the bride to select the shoes the bridal party will be wearing. I honestly thought that was how things are done though. The bride picks out the shoes and dress and the bridal party wears it. Well I explained to her that I would like all the girls shoes to match since the dresses will be short and everyone on here is telling me that unless I am buying the shoes I don't have a right to say what she wears. Any opinions or help? I feel really bad now.