I can't be the only one feeling this way.
Invitations have been out for two weeks. I have a (IMO) huge list. Lots of people out of state or with a zillion kids. And in all that time, we've gotten something like 1/7th of the responses back.
I still have a week and a half till deadline, but it's still driving me nuts. There are so many things just stuck on hold--I don't know whether I can afford certain upgrades, or if I'll need to forgo certain things, because I have absolutely no idea what our final list/size is going to be. Do I need to rent extra seating? Reserve a tent? Downgrade the bar? Can I hire a band or ceremony musicians as well as a DJ? Will there be enough money for centerpieces? What do I tell the florist? Ugh. Come onnnnnnnn people, is it really that hard to turn in a card--or at least e-mail me?