I'm getting married in a couple of month. None of my bridesmaids are planning a shower-my mother did and has had me help her with printing invitations & making center pieces. None of them have asked me about ideas for a bachelorette party. My MOH is my sister who is having a difficult pregnancy and is on bed rest and having difficulties with running her business from her bed. Baby probably will be born premature so obviously she has things more important going on than planning my bachelorette party. Although she does complain to our mother about being bored and not have much to do stuck at home. One bridesmaid lives out of state so she can't really help with a bachelorette party. The other is my sister-in-law. She has no constraints that would make it too burdensome to ask me what I'd like especially after I paid hundreds for hers in NYC!
I'd like a bachelorette party but it doesn't appear my bridesmaids are going to plan anything. Wedding is 2 months away. Do I say anything to any of them? Do I just plan my own?