Somebody help me, or b*tch slap me so I know if I am being bridezilla or unreasonable or if I have any room to be annoyed/mad about this situation.
Most of my maids have known for a while that I would like to go to Vegas or go do a short getaway as my bachelorette party. I asked my made of honor to send out communication to them so that they could start planning and to let me know how they all feel about it and what they wanted to do. i told her to make it clear (even though i already expressed this to some of them) that of course they are not obligated to go at all. Well, one of my bridesmaids made a not so ideal response (unless i am just being psycho) that my MOH felt necessary to tell me. Now, we would plan on going probably anywhere between April and June, if anyone wanted to go. My bridesmaid responded that her and her husband will be trying to have kids around then and so she will probably be pregnant therefore going to Vegas is out of the question for her.......Now, someone PLEASE tell me if I am being to crazy about this, but.....you are not pregnant now! And saying you do not want to be a part of my planning because you MIGHT be pregant then? I do not get. I might as well mention that I did EVERYTHING for her bachelorette party last year when she got married, and she was ALL FOR going away for mine....now all of a sudden, sorry I don't want to hold you back planning because I may be pregnant. Can someone give me advice please? Do I just shrug this off and let it go? Do I just let her not even be a part of it? Should I ask my other bridesmaids what they think? What if I decide not to go away and just do something in town...if she's pregnant is she going to even want to do that? I get this is her life and I don't want it to revolve around my wedding plans, but to be counting yourself out for a baby that doesn't even exist yet? I just don't want to have that extra stress on me about trying to plan my wedding events around a "potentially pregnant" beidesmaid. If she actually were pregnant that would be a different story. I would understand if she was pregnant right now, when we are trying to plan, and felt maybe she would be too far along to travel. BUT SHE'S NOT PREGNANT. SHE'S planning on maybe being pregnant and somehow instantly knows she won't want to travel....I'm afraid to talk to my other bridesmaids about this because I definitely don't want to ruffle any feathers or have them think that I am being too bridezilla and controlling.
I tend to have big irrational freakouts over nonesense, so someone please tell me if I am having a big irrational freakout.