Hi ladies-- in talking with one of my friends she was asking if I was having a bridal shower and all of that. I told her no, I didn't want all of that and that my MOH asked when I first got engaged what I wanted to do for all of these parties, and I said no, no worries on all of that. I just want people to come to the wedding and have a grand ole time. So my friend was like "Whew, OK, I was hoping I wasn't missing anything!"
And it made me realize -- I don't want other friends to think that they weren't invited to pre-wedding stuff, you know? How do you spread the word, I guess, that I'm not planning on doing an engagement party, bridal shower or bachelorette party without being annoying about it? I would assume just casually dropping it in conversations is a way and hope the word spreads? Or as in my previous posts, am I stressing too much over it? :-D
(edited to take out stuff about FI... not necessary)