I've been lurking on these boards for a year plus, and in this time I've come to have two many observations/questions.
First, I've noticed that many people on these boards seem to really enjoy taking their anger out on women who come looking for help and advice. You really seem to find enjoyment out of mocking these women, and in general, acting like grown versions of up mean girls. I've also noticed that many of the regular commenters have terrible relationships with either a sister or brother, or a parent. Is this a coincidence? I don't think so. Additionally, I'm guessing based on the frequency of many of your posts here, you don't have many real life friends.
Second, I'm a little perplexed about why people on these boards actually take the advice here seriously, simply based on who is giving the advice. So many of you have such messed up lives and priorities that I am a little unsure what qualifies you to give life advice to others. For example, one regular seems to love giving snarky advice to others, yet from what I can tell her own life is completely and totally hopeless. From what I can tell, this married a total loser, who doesn't like her children from a previous relationship (or marriage, I'm not sure), and spends what little money they have on drugs. Good life choice! Yet, this regular is out there doling out advice to others and apparently taking her anger (which I'm sure is large based on her current life) on others on this board. I'm sure that marriage will work out swimmingly. I could pick out many more people on these boards, but I won't. Point being, women who are actually looking for advice, why are you looking to these people??
Anyway, end rant. I'm never logging in here again. So delete this post, ban me, whatever. It doesn't really matter. Just had to get this off of my chest.