I don't know what to do. We won't be back to the states before the wedding, so no showers. We really actually need a lot of stuff, but registering just feels so complicated. Appliances on an American website have different voltage. I don't even know the big German department stores to register or if that's even a thing here. My sis suggested registering for gift cards, but that's basically asking for money, and I don't think I could even use them. American sheets don't fit on our European bed. We aren't taking a honeymoon, so a honey fund doesn't make sense, and I think it's slightly tacky anyway. We really need new kitchenware, and I'do r to register for that, but if people bring stuff to the wedding, we'll have trouble transporting stuff that big. And we can't do Amazon and ask people to ship internationally, that's rude. What do you all think? My gut says to put on the website something that indicates we aren't asking for tangible gifts due to our situation and tell them that their presence is present enough. People will hopefully figure it out without us pout blank asking for money. Any thoughts?