Okay so my husband and I have been married for a year now. We ended up eloping due to financial reasons and now we started thinking about renewing our vows on our 5 year anniversary and have the big celebration we couldn't afford with the dress and all the other fancy things. I loved our elopement but i would've loved to share it with our families too. Are we crazy for wanting to have the celebration we couldn't afford or should we stick to just having a small party? Any advice? I am aware that it would be impossible to have all the wedding things because of course we are already married but for example having our first dance and being able to wear a nice dress not necessarily an over the top wedding dress.