My soon to be mother in law mentioned something about picking a song for the parents dance, I did not know what that was and she said it is when both sets of parents have a dance to a special song after the first dance, father daughter dance and the mother son dance. I said that my parents would most likely not be interested in that as they do not like to dance, or be the center of attention, but I would ask them, she went on to say it was an important wedding tradition and they wanted to do it. I am just curious if this is an actual thing that I just have never heard of? And after confirming with my parents that they for sure do not want to do that, how do I tell mother in law?