I'll be back for the regs discussion but wanted to share this and get some of your thoughts.
Last night I got threatening messages through my FB PM. She claims I bullied her when (her or I - not clear) was in Middle School. Nothing she has said sounds factually or characteristically like me at that age, and neither my sister or only solid friend from Middle and High School recognize her. She doubled down on all of this on two FB posts in an alumni group for our HS.
However, as someone who was bullied, I know I'll never forget my bully and when I had the chance to talk to him about it, he didn't remember bullying me, so I don't want to categorically dismiss her allegations either. The thought that I could have caused someone so much harm they still carry it 25 years later truly upsets me. I want to respond as a victim of bullying who found peace. But because she literally threatened to beat me up, I won't.
Thanks for letting me talk about this here.