My fiancé and I are having a destination wedding and are inviting both sides of our family plus friends. We have almost 200 people we invited although we knew most would not be able to attend. We are getting married in November. We live in KY so we were thinking about having a celebration/reception before we get married at our neighborhood park. We figured having it in July or August. Would this be appropriate? We were going to have cake, music and food. Maybe grill out or order chicken. What other things are appropriate if we were to have it before our DW?