Ok so I'm waiting at the kid's house with 2 hours to kill before she's done hanging out with friends, and I don't feel like driving back and forth. If I wasn't bored, I would not even post this, but I'm curious about your take!
Background: BF works for a start-up, in a small office in Manhattan. He recently got two new young female coworkers. One he describes as really quiet and kind of uptight, the other he calls "the mess" because she's always late and talks really loudly, among other reasons.
About two weeks ago, on a Sunday night, he got a text from her and opened it right in front of me. It said "What are you song?" We laughed about it, and she sent a correction a few seconds later, "what are you doing?". I, said "I think she LIKES you!" and BF ignored me, and the texts. A few minutes later he got another text from her, saying:
"I'm tired but would live to cuddle" [sic]
Then:
"*love to cuddle"
Luckily I was buzzed from a few glasses of wine, because I found it funny more than anything else. BF was shocked and couldn't believe this girl was texting him like this, though they have the same title, he acts as her manager in several ways - AND he talks about me regularly enough that there is no way this girl doesn't know he has a serious GF.
After another few minutes (bf did not respond at all). She texts:
"OMG SO SORRY in datig a guy nemed [bf's name] and got you mixed up!" [sic]
She then followed up with about ten more texts expressing her embarrassment and apologies. Everything *kind of* made sense at that point except I told BF that there's a chance the texts WERE meant for him, but when he didn't respond she freaked out and backtracked. He didn't buy that at all, and totally believed it was just a mix up.
This past Friday she texted him a few times from happy hour with their other coworker, telling him they were out and asking if he was jealous they were out without him. He responded back with as few words as possible. Again, I told BF I thought this girl had a thing for him because when I was single, I did not text opposite text co-workers just to be friendly. If I liked someone, however, being out for HH would be a perfect excuse to contact him.
Then, Saturday night at 10:30pm, she texted him "what's up?". He didn't respond.
Am I just crazy or, if you were in my shoes, would you think this girl is interested?
I have complete trust in my BF, and have nothing to worry about, but we definitely disagree about what might be going on here. He doesn't think there is any chance she's into him, while I think there's at least a pretty good chance she is. What do you think?