My best friend is getting married the month before me so she shares a lot of her planning with me. I decided to hold back after she decided to imitate some of my ideas (BM dress colour, blue shoes as something blue, tea length dress) I know that I dont have a monopoly on ideas but she has said 'I love that! I may do that too!'
But I digress: I have been able to lead her out of bad etiquette when I can (no b-list guests, not buying the BMs jewelery to be worn at the wedding and saying its their BM gift) but tonight took the cake, brownie and whole ice cream sundae! She ordered her invites and told me she and her FI WANT gifts at the shower (which she is throwing herself) and money only at the wedding. They put 'monetary gifts only' on the invites...i.just.can't.anymore.
Her wedding stresses me out more than my own. I try to correct her when I can but is it worth my time anymore?