Question of opinion - I am not asking for matching accessories for my girls. They can wear shoes they already own, jewelry they already own etc . . . I didn't ask them to buy shrugs, but I noticed that when I went to order my sister's dress for her, my other two bridesmaids had decided to buy matching shrugs for themselves. I'm worried that they might have felt obligated to buy them, even though I didn't ask them to. Should I offer to pay them back for the shrugs? They weren't that expensive, so I could probably swing that in the budget.