A bit of background - FI and I met online and within 8 months we were engaged to be married. I had met my FMIL a few times and thought everything was ok. ANYWAY fast track to planning for our wedding and I couldnt help but feel that FMIL was being so negative about everything. Telling me that MY guest list was too big (FI and I are paying for everything) but then adding more people to their list, that I should do my own make up for my wedding day, that Im spending too much money on our wedding etc. To add to it all she has asked FI whether he was "sure he wants to go ahead with it".
Anyway - the final straw for me and the reason I'm posting here is I found out that she has made the following comment "I just never thought he (FI) would be marrying a BLACK person". That is beyond rude and unacceptable to me. Is anybody else dealing with this sort of ridiculous attitude/behaviour from FILs? How do you cope?
Can't wait to say 'I do' on April 14, 2014 - Planning Bio