Me and my FI are in the process of picking our wedding party. He will have his 2 brothers and 2 close friends. I have my sister, my best friend, and 2 close friends i'm considering. One of his groomsmen is married to probably my FI's only real friend who is a girl and has known for years. They are extremely close. I know it would mean a lot for him to have her as one of my bridesmaids, she is really sweet and all we just haven't exactly had the time to get to know each other extremely well. I don't know if I should ask her to or not, partially because she is pregnant (and by our wedding the baby will be about a year old), will having both parents be in the wedding be a big deal for them is a big concern of mine. So i'm very torn on asking her! Any help would be so very much appriciated!